Wednesday, January 7, 2026

Achtung ! Planning to do Masters in Germany ?

In 2017, in my Daughter's school, a German language course was introduced as a hobby language. The Goethe Zentrum had partnered with some CBSE schools in Trivandrum and initiated a program, which was held after school, twice a week for 1.5 hours. We encourage our daughter to take up the course. Thanks to the very well-designed course, activity-based sessions, and very talented Teacher Raji Mam, my daughter loved the course and language. She started learning German in class 7 and continued it until class 11, when she cleared the B1 level, which was the maximum level to achieve in the "Jugendliche" category. By that time, we had started thinking about the possibilities of studying in German universities.

2025, she completed her Graduation from MCC Madras University with 83% (Chemistry, Biochemistry, Maths). She had shortlisted around 6-8 German Public universities for PG in Chemistry. She got all her documents in place APS certificate, Provisional certificates. IELTS scores,  Proper internships done in all 3 years of her graduation. A few universities she had to apply directly, and few through  Uni-assist. Through Uni-assist she got the first mail stating that she meets all the required parameters and is eligible to apply to courses of her choice at the Universities.

One of the universities she had applied to directly rejected her application, stating she does not have the required Credit points for MSc Chemistry. We thought, that's one of the highly in-demand Technical University so probably their credit cut-offs are high.  But the same thing happened with all the other Universities, 3 of them asked for the detailed Course structure of the Madras University BSc Chemistry course (Number of hours per paper, subtopics, list of all the Lab experiments done in 3 years) and very politely informed that for certain papers in the Madras University course, did not have the required credit points. 

While applying for the course, none of the Universities has given the details of what the minimum credit score/point required to apply.  Now, Madras University BSc Chemistry course's total credit score is 150 and one needs 140 credit points to attain a Degree. 4 out of 6 German Universities applied 150 Credit score, which is not enough to pursue MSc Chemistry. And nowhere could I find information on the minimum credit score required in these universities.

And then I asked one of the "Study Abroad " companies about the Credit score required. They took 24 hours to get back to me with the information. They said 180-210 score is required in Public Universities!

So folks, please check the Total credit scores of your course, check the minimum credit required to pursue the course of your choice and then apply . Please note that my daughter's experience through the process had been very good, even though she got rejections. All her doubts and concerns were promptly answered with details of what information University wanted. She was given enough heads-up to submit the documents they were asking for to check the course and credit structure. 

It was almost 4 years of planning, preparing and wanting to do PG in Germany that got crushed, but there is nothing much we can complain about, except for the point that universities can clearly mention about the credit points and course structure they are looking for on their course page.










Monday, January 5, 2026

Eko - It's different

Came across this Malayalam movie Eko on Netflix, and just thought of checking it out . It turned out to be pleasantly surprising , very different movie. I dont remember when was the last time i saw such unpredictable, unconventional plot. Though I did feel that some minute but cruial details were missing about the main charecters,and I did not get the backstory and motivation  of the character  brilliantly played by Sandeep Pradeep. Maybe I have to blame it on my Malayalm skills for missing out those details.

The thought which remained with me from this movie was a dialouge about "Protection and Restriction" The film touched on the think line between Protection and Restrictions, where restriction or control is usually potrayed as " Care" 

Another good thing about the movie is that its not all Malayali cast,  and all of the non Malayalis have given good performances. Biana Momin who plays another main character  is impressive .Use of Malay langauage in the movie is another interesting thing.Locations and visuals were beautiful and very natural! I did find the pace of the movie a little too slow for my taste, so watching in it 1.25 speed was much better for me :) My first movie of 2026 and I have to accept Malayalam cinema still have "the edge"!



Sunday, January 4, 2026

Tere khusboo mein basse khatt

Growing up listening to Ghazals, thanks to my dad's collection of Gulam Ali, Jagjit Singh - Chitra, Rajendra - Nina, Bhupendra, Mehndi Hasan, Farida Khannum and Pankaj Udhas,  I developed a love for this genre of music. One of my wishes was to see and hear Jagjit Singh live. But that never happened. The closest I could get to attending a Ghazal night was when Pankaj Udhas came to Trivandrum for a performance, but the venue was on the outskirts and by the time we reached, the program was almost over, and this was almost a decade ago.

So when Anil mentioned a ghazal night at Tagore Theatre on Jan 3rd, without thinking twice, I agreed. The hall had a decent number of audience, and at 7:30 pm performers were settling on the stage. The next 1.5 hours were a run-down memory lane . Deepanwita Chakravorty started the evening with Jagjit Singh's "Tere khusboo mein likhe khatt" and I know this is going to be a nostalgic evening. "Pyar ka phela Khatt" "Ranjish he sahi" "Chupke Chupke raat din" "Jab deep jale""kash aisa bhi koi manzar" "aaj jaane ki zidd" few more very popular, well-known songs, Ghazals and 2 of her own compositions. It was an absolutely beautiful musical evening, and the accompanying musicians on Tabla, Guitar, Flute and Keyboard were equally brilliant. 

It was also an eye opener for me that even though most of the popular Ghazal Singers are Men, but women Ghazal singers are also brilliant ! 





Saturday, January 3, 2026

Nothing better than catching up with old Friends


At the beginning of 2025, I received a message about the passing away of one of our WASE batchmates, Ajith, who was 46 years old and had settled in London. It was quite a shocker to me, as in the previous year 2024, I had seen his photo with some of my other batchmates meeting up in Mumbai. He was battling a serious health condition then, and not many people knew, including the friends who were in the snap or me. Ajith was one of those high-energy, full-charge guys in the batch - "jiske honey se rounak aa jati thee". A munda Punjabi in 1998, who turned to a practising Sikh and Sardar later - someone I did not keep in contact with, but I never forgot and remembered him "The guy with a big smile and Josh".


A couple of weeks after this news, another batchmate sent me a team photo taken in 2003, asking me if I was the girl in the snap. And that the Project Manager in that snap had died a couple of days back. And that group photo was the snap shared with the message. He was my last reporting Manager in Wipro. I never tried keeping in contact with him, and later got to know that he had left the IT industry and had got into academics.

These 2 deaths made me think of reconnecting and meeting with my friends (school, college, work), and that is what I did in 2025. In April, I went to Trichur and met my 4-5 schoolmates and a collegemate after 2 years, and in the process happen to meet 1 NIIT mate after 27 years. In July went to Bangalore and met 2 fellow "Wasians " after 23 and 14 years, My Manager from CGI after 19 years. You may ask - what's the big deal, what do you gain? And to be frank thats how I used to feel - everyone is so busy in their own lives, where is the time to go around meeting people with no agenda and benefits. But I was wrong. We are not just what our family defines us to be, or what our job defines us. We are also defined by our friends and acquantainces, how we make them feel, how they make us feel. And so one needs to take that effort, make the trip at least once a year and reconnect and recharge.



Friday, January 2, 2026

Linkedout -- Bye Bye Linkedin




I joined LinkedIn in 2006, though not very active, checking Linkedin atleast once a day was a daily routine. Most of the time, it was to check out posts from my ex-colleagues, sometimes to track down people I would suddenly remember from work, and the rest of the time, it was just to scroll.

At the beginning of 2025, I decided to take a break from LinkedIn and deactivated my account. Reasons? 
1. Felt it was becoming more like Facebook, where people keep posting about their and their family members' achievements. It feels as if here, too, people are trying to get the maximum "Likes" or footfalls. Slowly and gradually, the platform started looking irrelevant.

2. No genuine engagement or connect with members.
I am very choosy when it comes to sending connect request of accepting. And so my network actually is very small, and I used to believe that I have few but genuine connections. But that was not the case. Many times, I never got a response to 1-1 messages. Many times, Interactions over the Posts felt very superficial

3. Job Opportunities 
I have been looking on and off for opportunities through LinkedIn all these years, but I never got an opportunity through LinkedIn. It was usually through job portals or through professional references, but never through the LinkedIn platform.  

So, last year I took a break from LinkedIn and didn't miss it much, but then in July, I went to Bangalore just to meet my friends and acquaintances, Met Sonu after 23 years, Yash after 14 years, and we started talking about other friends, and that's when I felt the need to be on LinkedIn. I came back and reactivated my account, and tried reconnecting with 2 of my Wipro batchmates, but after that, nothing much. 

Professionaly I took break 3 years back, deciding I will get back to academics and change my path if possible. But whatever I had planned didn't work out. And then recently, I thought I should check the waters and apply for suitable Job openings. It's during this process that I realised that nothing much happens through the platform. What matters is your personal connection with people and how you pursue each opportunity individually .

LinkedIn was the only social media I was in, Deleting the account still seems a difficult choice; it's like deleting all my work experience. What if someone asks for LinkedIn profile? 😕
Maybe having a resume is good enough ! So I guess finally its time to say LinkedIn - "Over and Out"