Why is that some people you would have met just once or twice but you remember them for your life time while some you would have shared the same class room for yrs but still you wont remember ..
Why is that you get connected to some people instantly while some will try to get your attention for years and still don’t succeed …
Why at times you feel that you should have met or known some people before , and how that never happened when it could have happened before ..
Why sometimes it takes years to understand and know a person and then just few incidents to change whole opinion about the same person …
Why we think we can avoid/ignore/hate someone we know well, just because we think we become weak when they are around …
Why we try to confine/ control /dictate conditions on sharing our likings , love , goodwill , concern, happiness , any feeling for that matter , with people around us who matter to us ..
Like one friend who made me understand the concept of “Nimitha maatram Bahavaa” - You are only instruments. Do not arrogate to yourselves any authority or power and claim credit for any achievement, And every time when I crib about my situation I think of him , and how calm he was through all the not so good time he faced and how his patience paid off .
Another friend who always tells me about celebrating life and that one can always remain young in their thoughts and act :) .
Another friend who just believe in keep doing things and always there to help .. yet another who does not say/talk much but reminds me of my strength as a women :) Another friend each day of his life gives inspiration to many , makes me think how life has been kind to me, and so many more friends ....
Saw this is one of my friend's FB update Friendship means understanding... Not agreement.. It means forgiveness, not forgetting.... It means the memories last even if contact is lost!
This weekend I called couple of my friends after long time – real long time 14 yrs 20 yrs , and was nice to hear them :) .. I somehow don’t feel very comfortable calling people on phone and always find some reason not to call .. but this weekend I just thought I should call and glad that I called .
I think I will never understand or know why some people come in our life (i dont have to understand - everything has a purpose :) – when you think about It , how many people we would have seen and met in our life till today, off them how many do we remember , how many names do we remember and how many people we actually know …
I can only thank god for bringing all these people in my life, people who did change my life - :)
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